Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Sleepless Nights...

Just a sampling of the questions keeping me up at night wayyyy to late....

Do I have the right people on the guest list?

Where will we live?

What if we have kids too soon?

What if we have kids too late?

What if we can't have kids?

How much does adoption cost?

How do we pay for everything @ wedding?

One word: Honeymoon

Will I like my wedding dress when I get it back?

Will Sean like me in my wedding dress?

Did I choose the right photographer?

When will April 4th come?

Is ******* still mad at me for not making her a bridesmaid?

Are people going to RSVP and then not show?

Are people not going to RSVP and then show?

How are the bridesmaid dresses going to look with my wedding dress?

Why can't I go to sleep?

Will I be able to sleep next to Sean?

Will it be weird?

Do I have to let *** take a date?

Seriously, God, why can't I go to sleep?

8 comments:

Monique said...

Awww! I remember the days. No matter what it is going to be awesome!

MelliB said...

One word: Nyquil

Crysti & Jerome said...

Seriously...this is why I know God loves us brides. He only intended us to go through the torture of planning a wedding ONE time :-) Just keep that in mind. Super stressful, but you only have to do it this one time :-)

Rachel said...

My Answers to your questions... Just for fun :)

Do I have the right people on the guest list?
Mmm... am I on it? Then yes you do :)
Where will we live?
Close to your friends
What if we have kids too soon?
Then you can buy some super cute onesies from me!
What if we have kids too late?
Then you can really buy lots of clothes from me since you will have tons of cash!
What if we can't have kids?
Then you can borrow some!
How much does adoption cost?
$1 per minute for the rest of your life, but that is any kid :)
How do we pay for everything @ wedding?
take donations at the door :)
One word: Honeymoon
another word... Pilates
Will I like my wedding dress when I get it back?
YES it is absolutly GORGEOUS!
Will Sean like me in my wedding dress?
Umm... YES and well... you know :)
Did I choose the right photographer?
Don't worry you have plenty of friends who will be taking great pictures!
When will April 4th come?
In under 6 months
Is ******* still mad at me for not making her a bridesmaid?
If they are you should throw a cake at her face :)
Are people going to RSVP and then not show?
maybe...
Are people not going to RSVP and then show?
Yes and they can take the others spots! see... it all works out!
How are the bridesmaid dresses going to look with my wedding dress?
GORGEOUS! They are so pretty
Why can't I go to sleep?
Because you need to r.e.l.a.x.
Will I be able to sleep next to Sean?
yes... you will be tired
Will it be weird?
yep... but well... I don't know!
Do I have to let *** take a date?
no... if they are male tell them they can go with me!
Seriously, God, why can't I go to sleep? I can't answer this...


Hope that made you feel better! Love you! See you at lunch :)

Shan said...

I love Rachel's answers! And I was going to say something along the lines as Mellib - have a drink!! But I should say something spiritual - so girl - give it to GOD!!!! And so many of these things that are on your mind will end up being such little details! Relax and enjoy this process!!! I'm praying for you!!

Cathi Hamen said...

remember its your day to share with Dean and thats all that matters!!! loved Rachel's responses...
it will all be in God's hands and His way!! pray pray pray

Ashley said...

Totally feel you! Hope that all of your thinking gets done. It will work out, don't worry. :)

Dan and Sarah said...

you will be AMAZED how well you suddenly sleep on the honeymoon!! no more wedding nighttime anxiety. :)